Friday, February 7, 2020

Our Temporary Move to Washington


1/25/20

We have been in Moses Lake for nearly 5 months and it is coming to an end. We have had so much fun growing, learning, and experiencing life off the island. In the beginning I thought “how am I going to make it 6 months” and BOOM it’s almost over just like that. It wouldn’t have been so fast I think without the support that we’ve experienced out here from family, friends and PLEX. Joking a little. If I could break down each month to give you a better picture of what we experienced from my side anyways it would go like this:

September
We flew our little family to Seattle to stay with the Johnson’s for a couple of weeks to get everything situated. I for one do not love talking on the phone and Trev won’t even call the pizza in, so that’s fun for me. Getting insurance for the girls was at the top of my priority list and thanks to the help of a couple sister-in-laws, I was able to apply just on an app and the website which was super awesome for my non-calling self. Until I needed some questions answered then I had to call in anyways. The next thing was to get our family settled in Moses Lake. We were blessed to have a good friend of Trevor’s named Rob offer us a room in his place, which was super helpful because I was going to just send Trev up here by himself since we couldn’t find anywhere affordable at least in our budget. Kelly helped me with my nerves by offering anything she thought we needed. I am not one to ask for help but I won’t turn it away. Everything she offered was on my to do list coming to Moses Lake. I love spending time with family whether it be mine or Trev’s. I love them all so getting to spend a couple weeks with great company and Kelly’s cooking is an A plus in my book. Loading up the van that Kelly so graciously offered to us (again another huge blessing) we set off on to our new adventure. Talking to people about what to expect is always so funny because it could take me to both ends of the spectrum so quickly. I was not sure what to expect.

October
It’s been low 40’s since we got here and my skin was in a panic. Something was wrong because to me it looked like there was a bug eating at it; which I believed for the start until talking to my sisters about their skin adjustments since moving to Utah. After that, I learned that lotion and I would become the best of friends. Also, not wanting my girls to have dry skin, I may have went a little overboard in the beginning lathering the two of them up like Robin Williams in Flubber with those various objects he lotions to see their bounce. I don’t know why that scene played in my head just now thinking about it but shoulder shrug I guess. Trying to get the motivation to walk every day is a struggle when your skin feels like it is burning from the wind (which I have experienced before and is no fun and super attractive lol), having the patience to dress Savannah warm enough to go for a walk, and constantly thinking of the dateline shows that I binge watched in Hawaii before flying up here (which I believed was for educational purposes for myself but turned out scaring me and thinking everyone wants to steal Savannah lol). I like to be prepared for any situation so my mind is constantly running with different scenarios and what I must do to come out the winner. I don’t know why I developed that kind of thinking but I can give you an answer for whatever kind of situation you throw at me which is fun. We went trick or treating door to door in high 30’s and Savannah loved every second of it. I only lasted 5 or so houses on our block before losing feeling in my fingers but before that we went to our ward Trunk or Treat which was nice and small. After pulling in nose first to the parking stall I noticed some of the other cars were reversing in and I wondered to myself if they knew how to do a Trunk or Treat..? Clearly thinking I was smarter since I could sit in our trunk to pass out candy, I realized they had the secret all along. When I ran out of candy and wanted to jet I had to reverse out of my spot and that’s not so easy with kids still trunk or treating behind you, so I just waited until everyone else was done and tipped my hat to all those who reversed in.

November
Ray and Savannah had checkups with the doctor and it was nice talking with them about Hawaii and getting all the questions on “why we would give up the warm weather for this cold” and explaining to them why and then getting a look from them like “good luck with that” as I finish the explanation is always funny. Amazon shipping is the best if you live on the mainland; like wow, two days beats two weeks to Hawaii every time no doubt. Tootie Frooties are up there on my faves and ordering a two pound bag was a must, thanks to that I lost a filling during the most crucial time of the year…the Holidays. We were able to spend an early Thanksgiving with my brother and cousin and their families down in Yakima, which was super fun. Getting to see her kids and how big they’ve grown interacting with my girls along with my brother’s daughter. It’s just crazy to think that we were literally the kids running around taking care of each other twenty years ago! Two weeks after losing my filling we were on our way to spending Thanksgiving with the Johnson family; all the kids and their families under one roof! To top it all off Trev was leaving me for two of the six days we were there. Hats off to single parents everywhere, I am not fast to ask for help, like I will literally drive myself miserable before asking for help which is terrible and do not suggest anyone to be like that. The Johnson’s are the kindest most loving family and I am blessed to be a part of it. They stepped up no questions asked; I am an emotional mess and super sensitive to everything when I feel the least bit like a burden or inadequate. The Thanksgiving football game was a smash, so much laughter and if you are on Trev and Jeff’s team and get sacked once just know you will never touch the ball again the rest of the game. Being my first full on Thanksgiving my mouth was having a party with the cran sauce, stuffing, creamy mashed potatoes and all of the delicious pies. I gained a couple pounds just looking at the food alone!

December
December seemed to fly by the closer and closer we came to Christmas. We were able to crash Trev’s hotel room in Spokane the first weekend during one of his tournaments. Spokane is a nice drive from Moses Lake; funny story (kind of) the girls and I left to drive there around 830 pm and it takes about an hour and a half to get there. I text Trev before we left; arriving there around 10-1030 I started calling Trev but he wasn’t answering. In my mind I know he is sleeping and that he didn’t mean to fall asleep but he done did it and I am outside of the hotel waiting for him to pick up, hoping that the girls and I don’t have to sleep in the van overnight. After calling and texting for 15 minutes or so I was losing my cool and thinking of all the different outcomes that could possibly come from this. I don’t know why I didn’t think of calling the hotel first but I finally decided to do so and asked the receptionist to put me through to a Trevor Johnson. When I heard the voice on the other side of the line I was confused because it wasn’t him so the man told me what room to call and I did so. Called the hotel again and asking for this room I got patched through and two rings later my phone started ringing and could you guess who it was… I was not a happy camper but loved the time we got to spend as a family there in Spokane, Savannah even got to go swimming in the pool which she is always down for. My dad visited us the first week, meeting us down in Spokane and it is always fun seeing him with the girls. When dad is in town that calls for trying out new places to eat and that happens every day. There was a little pressure in my mind to try and show him the town and what I do during the day with my girls; but it was all just in my mind because all he wanted to do was spend time with us, mostly just the girls. After my dad’s visit we drove back to Kent to spend Christmas with the Johnson’s. This time it was only Kelly, Bruce, Lindsi and Halli home. Christmas calls for Hallmark movies, a marathon of some movie, good food, great company and While You Were Sleeping. I love the Johnson’s traditions and that I have now been able to witness two years of Santa coming on Christmas Eve. We hid behind the furniture and waited for the call--- Santa comes through the door and makes his way to the fireplace where he reads off a list with a bit about each person (not just random facts though he is Santa so he is particular) then fills up the stockings and leaves. Savannah loved it, her peeking through the two inch crack between the couches was the best part for me; that and calling Santa “Bubba”. Home girl was spoiled, she got a whole lot of toys and loves all of them. There is this velvet dress Kelly bought for her that she got into the day before. She came down the stairs doing a little dance and all of us were like “where’d she get that dress?” Lindsi mentioned that that was a gift for her that Kelly had wrapped, so we rushed Savannah like a blitz. Poor girl, she obviously loved the dress and wanted us to give her compliments about it but we didn’t want Kelly to see that she got into the present. Fast forward to gift opening, Savannah opened it again and there had to be some remembrance of us rushing her to get it off, because she picked it up and then set it right back down like she wasn’t supposed to touch it. We all looked at each other and explained the previous encounter with the dress to Kelly which she just started laughing. I think my fav gift was this air fryer which has changed my cooking game and is literally my toy. I haven’t cooked in the oven since the air fryer and I will ride it until it breaks most likely. This time of year always brings back good memories and always seems to be the best time to step back and evaluate the year; our year brought new adventures, another baby girl, Savannah’s first snow and a whole lotta love.

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